Life is short and death is something that we cannot escape. We may not have the most perfect life but we should be grateful enough that we are still alive and God allows us to have another day to see the sun shine. I'm sure you have heard of the quote that we should live our life to the fullest but have you guys tried to live it that way? If you're going to die today, will you ever have any regrets? Are there things that you wishes to have enough time to change? Listed below are five of the most common regrets before dying.
TOP FIVE MOST COMMON REGRETS BEFORE DYING
TOP 5 MOST COMMON REGRET BEFORE DYING
"I WISH I'D LIVE THE LIFE I WANTED , NOT THE LIFE OTHERS EXPECTED OF ME"
This is one of the most common regret that we have. Keep in mind that every path that we take is more like a life changing decision. If someone wanted you to be like this and you followed it because they wanted to, then you may not experience the true happiness because you're not passionate about it. We do not live to please other people and be the person they want us to be because if we do, we will keep the same standard for the rest of our life. Just be true to yourself and follow what your heart says before it's too late to change everything. We may not have the way to go back but we still have the chance to change our life, and this time, we have to change it for good. Live the life as you wanted and don't let others interest influenced you.
TOP 4 MOST COMMON REGRET BEFORE DYING
"I WISH I DIDN'T WORK SO HARD"
Money makes the world go round and in order to obtain your financial status, then you have to work hard for it but that doesn't mean that you have to spend all your time at work, ignoring everyone around you. Money is not the most important thing you could ever had in your entire life. I am the breadwinner in our family and i really have to work hard for them. I started working at the age of 16 and as a consequence , i never felt how to become a teenager and hang out with my peers. I should have simplified my lifestyle and created more space in my life and i'm sure if i've done that, i will become happier and more open to new opportunities. In that way, i can make my life more enjoyable.
TOP 3 MOST COMMON REGRET BEFORE DYING
"I WISH I'VE HAD THE COURAGE TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS"
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. I know it because i have seen a lot of this kind of scenario i movies. Many of us are afraid of expressing the real feelings that we have and we tend to keep it for the rest of our life without even taking the risk to say it to someone. And before we realized it, it's already too late because the woman or the man that you love is already engage to someone. We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level.
TOP 2 MOST COMMON REGRET BEFORE DYING
"I WISH I HAD STAYED IN TOUCH WITH MY FRIENDS"
Friends are one of the greatest treasure that a man could ever had. They are simply irreplaceable. Unfortunately, many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. The more you become busy, the more time you let friendship slips. You will then realize it when you're almost dying and you'll start wishing that you should have spent more time with them, the people who understand you the most, the people who accepted you at your worst, the people who are always there in a hurry when you need them, the people who are willing to offer their help when you need it.
THE MOST COMMON REGRET BEFORE DYING
"I WISH I HAD LET MYSELF BE HAPPIER"
Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice. You do not have to push yourself too much and think of something that will make you stress. Do not let yourself be stocked into your old patterns and habit. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. Smile or laugh if you want without any hesitation, cry out loud and let your tears flow without any fear of being caught. Happiness is a choice, life is a choice. If you want to live happily , then be it! Do as what your heart says.
